When my son was born I had every intention to nurse him. Unfortunately my body had other ideas and nursing failed me... I was devastated, but he is now almost 5, was mostly formula fed and is healthy and the smartest little guy I know.
I support whatever a mother has to do to keep her baby healthy, growing, and happy!
For me, the second time around I only had one option... nurse. Financially, personal preference, and just my own goals. The second week of Aynslie's life she did not gain. I was devastated. Tears rolling... I thought for sure once again I had lost my milk and ability to nurse.
I thought for a minute and said, NO! This is my prerogative... if I want to nurse, I'm going to nurse! So down the water went, in came the calories, herbal supplements, oatmeal, tea, pumping, flax, coconut oil, chia, and so on. I am here to tell you... I'm still nursing and my child has never seen a drop of formula. I have faced the obstacle of being unable to pump, low milk supply, and lots of criticism. My baby is not only not malnourished, but she is ahead of the game developmentally. She's tiny, but mighty.... is what we like to say. :)
I have loved the bonding, one on one time, and the pure joy that my daughter is getting the best nutrition possible and it's coming from me.
I encourage anyone that has faced nursing obstacles to realize that you are not alone. If you nursed, chose not to, couldn't, or faced many obstacles like myself... you're a great mom no matter what. I believe nursing is what's best, but it's not for everyone.
I encourage anyone that has nursing questions to always talk to your lactation consultant and I'm always happy to help in any way I can. Not an expert by any stretch, but a mommy that cares for others!
Happy Nursing, momma's! :)
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